You’ve done “the work” … so why do you still feel stuck?
This isn’t another coaching method — it’s a system for ending self-abandonment so you can finally live from truth, not trauma.
The data is in:
Safety, clarity, and self-trust are not luxuries.
They’re the new baseline for a life well lived.
Because you can’t out-think your nervous system.
If your life still feels off— even after the therapy, the books, the mindset work, it’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because your body is still running on old survival code.
Patterns wired by culture. Held in your breath. Triggered by daily moments you barely notice. But…
Who you have been is not who you are capable of becoming.
The past does not hold the answers to your future.
Your body does — it holds all the answers you are seeking.
All you have to do is discover them…
Learning to read to read your body changes your life…
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Stela was the right fit coach for me because she is smart, brave, and devoted to this body of knowledge as a way to live. She has the technical knowledge and confidence to notice, invite, challenge, and hold firm in conversations that may be intense, but lead to great revelations and shifts in perspective. I am good at lying to myself. Stela challenges what feels ‘off’ to her and holds space for me to own my stories and choose: run the pattern or live differently?
Jennifer Hatt
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I no longer wanted quick fixes that provided short-term relief. I was seeking true transformation—something with a greater impact. After just a few months of engaging with the WEL-Systems® body of knowledge, my life has exploded with clarity and alignment. AND, I wanted more. With Stela as my coach and context leader, I trusted the entire process and allowed my true Self to emerge. It felt incredible! After this immersive experience, I felt my consciousness expand beyond what I had imagined...
Celine Burlock
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Stela is simply extraordinary as a coach. She is the godForce embodied, wisdom, calm, ultimate generosity and intelligence speaking to, and uncovering that place in me. She is that self realized and courageous soul that dares to see your truth call you up on it. There are no words to express my gratitude and knowing Stela. I know she can hold me in complete safety and take me where I want to go.
Randi White
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Stela sees and challenges my BS. I know 'not now' very well. Now, I see and hear myself more often. In fact, I cannot NOT see myself anymore …
Claudine Loiselle
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During the coaching and the everyday messages through Telegram I have evolved so much. I can now say that I am the godForce and that itself says so much about the impact Stela’s coaching has had on me. I have come to understand how listening to my body and breathing gives me insights of my truth, and helps me speak with clarity and courage. There is so much more layers I have begun to see and most beautifully integrate instead of pushing it out or stuffing it in.
Neetha Mary
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Stela is a brave human being, unafraid to explore the depth and shadow of what it is to be human. She is a responsible adult, which is rare these days. I can count on Stela to be asked daring questions for growth. Stela is incredibly supportive, straightforward, brilliant, unapologetically provocative. I recognized in her the wounded healer, she walks the talk! Thank you for shining your light.
Frederique Suriya
This work helps you live what you’ve always known was possible.
If you want your life to be different, you must become different.
To become different, you must make different choices.
To make different choices, you must discover how to trust yourSelf.
To trust yourSelf, you must decloak the truth of your experience …
Learn how to respond, not react—so you get connection, not collapse.
Rebuild trust in yourself—so you stop spinning and start choosing.
Have a practical, repeatable process to return to—so growth sticks, not slips.
This isn’t just about fixing a problem.
It’s about shifting how you experience yourself—
so that life doesn’t feel like something you have to manage, but a process you get to enjoy.
Because the answers you’re seeking?
They’re not out there. They’re already within you.
We’ll uncover them together—gently, powerfully, and on your terms.
Meet your guide
Stela Murrizi
I’m not here to fix you — I’m here to help you remember who you really are.
As the Guardian of the Vision for the WEL-Systems® Institute, I guide women through the sacred process of Decloaking — a body-led, science-backed way to unravel old patterns and live from their deepest truth.
I’ve walked through addiction, identity collapse, and self-abandonment — and found my way home to a life that’s raw, real, and fully alive.
I don’t teach mindset tricks. I teach women how to live from their godSelf.
Curious about my story?
3 WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
Self-Directed Evolution
Decloaking and Living Authentically audio course
For the curious woman who’s ready to explore a new way of living, at her own pace.
This on-demand audio course offers a foundational doorway into the Decloaking framework—so you can begin shifting your inner world before ever stepping into a live container.
One-on-One Coaching
five weeks of deep & intimate coaching
A private, guided space to integrate the Decloaking framework in real time—so you can decode your body’s signals, unlearn old patterns, and live from your truth with clarity and steadiness.
Decloaking Intensive
Live Immersive 5-Day Group Experience
A powerful five-day portal for the woman ready to go all in—where old patterns unravel and a new, embodied relationship with your truth begins.
Quiz
truth or trauma?
10 questions to help you see: Are you living from truth — or from trauma responses?
LOVE READING?
Explore my most cherished pieces…
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How CODE Model Coaching transforms lives
“I am the first of my long line ancestors afforded the freedom to be able to choose, to create my life in whichever way it is meaningful for me in each unfolding moment. What a gift I have given mySelf — one I am eternally grateful for and intend to honour, as if my life depends on it, because it does.”
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Dear Declan: A love letter to my son
“I am choosing to write these letters and post them publicly because I know I am not alone in what I see unfolding “out there”. I know I am not the only mother who is deeply concerned. And… I know that I choose not to hide in the closet, pretending, because there is no power there.”
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Transcending A Life of Mediocrity
“What else is possible when you embrace the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs? Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.”
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How this process changes lives
“Today, I know well that the past does not serve me. It helped shape me, it has provided me with an opportunity to learn more about myself, and it does not define me. I know, with every single breath, I can choose choices that serve me, as I am, in this moment.”
