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Your result is:
Exhausted People Pleaser
At an early age, you learned to shut down your inner cues and focus the full measure of your attention on the people around you. Their needs became your problem to fix.
This form of enmeshment is true especially if you’re a first born daughter.
In focusing your attention on how to make everyone around you happy, you do not easily focus on yourself.
In other words, you prioritize the well-being of the family before your own.
That’s what a good girl (wife, mother, sister, daughter) would do.
The belief that lives underneath this type of thinking? If you are able to make everyone else’s life comfortable, then you can focus on yourself, guilt-free.
The problem is, giving what you haven’t got is exhausting and debilitating.
Remember — this is not who you are but merely a strategy you picked up to keep you safe.
The results of this quiz show you:
“good girl” conditioning is pervasive in your life.
Take heart — it’s not just you!
Women have been intergenerationally taught to value “being nice” over being authentic (aka boundaried).
In fact, we have been taught to ignore any inner cues that hint at truth. In doing so, we have learned to live confused, second-guessing ourselves and feeling powerless to own our choices.
My point is – this isn’t unique to you. It is true for all women everywhere.
What’s unique to you is how you’ve internalized this conditioning.
So, what to do about that?!
Explore the dreaded B-WORD conversation: Boundaries.
Join us for this five day bootcamp exploring all things boundaried living.
This is not yet another passive workshop – this is a five day challenge intended to provoke your thinking about yourself.
Because continuing to buy into the “being nice” mindset has a deadly personal cost.