On becoming the living boundary between a collapsing culture and my son’s mind…

My son’s mind (as a synonym of well-being) is THE single most important thing to me in my entire life. Undoubtedly, his state of being is determined by his state of mind.

For the mothers who refuse to disappear under the weight of the conventional narrative of who they were told they should be.

I knew when I became a mother that my life wasn’t just mine – it was now shared with a being who depended on me fully and wholeheartedly for his lifelong well-being.

For his well-being, I have restructured my life in ways I wouldn’t have known prior to his arrival on this planet.

We carry more than our own pain. Healing the motherline means releasing inherited patterns — guilt, silence, sacrifice — that no longer serve us or our children. If you're a mother ready to break the cycle and reclaim what was always yours, this invitation is for you.

Transform how you relate to yourself and heal by becoming real.

To lie, or not to lie, that is the question …

That is what trusting what the full measure of the godForce we each are looks like. Never betraying the Truth of my moment, nor giving directives on how to live your meaningful life. Truly, my greatest gift to each person that crosses my path is empowering them to the process of choice, while being indifferent to the choices they make. I trust this makes sense.

Children sense the internal state of the mother and respond accordingly by developing their adaptive strategies to cope with their environment. 

So, this mother's best advice to my three year old? Be yourself, and tell the truth! Notice where you deny, defend, dismiss, avoid. Notice where you think you know best. Notice where you hook yourself to an illusion to try and sustain the status quo of your life. Notice when that's no longer serving you. Notice your unfolding mindfully in every breath, and choose every choice consciously. Seek the higher order truth that's beckoning to be revealed to you, and you will find it ... over and over and over ... 

There is an "I AM" only inside of us that knows our own unique truth, independent of what anyone else believes. It is much harder to access that unless and until we begin to notice that we are distinct and separate from our mother, our sister, our husbands, our children.  The only question remaining to explore is: are you willing to discover who YOU are?