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Darkness is my sacred gift: A reclamation of the self that never left
Addiction numbed the noise—but darkness taught me how to listen.
A Motherhood Manifesto
For the mothers who refuse to disappear under the weight of the conventional narrative of who they were told they should be.
The Kind of Mother I Choose to Be
I knew when I became a mother that my life wasn’t just mine – it was now shared with a being who depended on me fully and wholeheartedly for his lifelong well-being.
For his well-being, I have restructured my life in ways I wouldn’t have known prior to his arrival on this planet.
Invitation: Break the cycle of the motherline
We carry more than our own pain. Healing the motherline means releasing inherited patterns — guilt, silence, sacrifice — that no longer serve us or our children. If you're a mother ready to break the cycle and reclaim what was always yours, this invitation is for you.
When Fitting In Becomes Too High A Price
The black sheep who could never fit in? You are not alone: There is power in finding the ones who see you.
Warning: This Post May Intimidate Weak Men
And in that moment, ladies, something ancient stirs and awakens -- something wild and holy. That’s the moment she begins to become the woman who scares weak men. Fittingly, your awakening is every weak man’s worst nightmare.
The Illusion of Separation: A journey to wholeness
But, how can we create a meaningful life from an intricate web of intergenerational lies?
We can’t, no matter how much we search. No matter how much we try. No matter how much we capitulate. No matter how much we numb, or dumb ourselves down.
The I AM in some of us simply will not be silenced.
A Compassionate and Provocative Approach to Self-Discovery
Are you seeking a comprehensive and holistic approach to self-discovery? I guide women to reclaim the quality of their mind, body, and spirit, creating meaningful, intentional lives by helping them discover their inner potential. Through WEL-Systems-based experiences, explore a transformative journey that is not found anywhere else.
“That is the most powerful gift I have ever received.”
I have done a lot of deep inner work, but nothing—nothing—has ever cracked me open quite like Decloaking with Stela. This wasn’t just another coaching session, self-help program, or course—it was a soul-level activation.
Some of my most cherished pieces…
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How CODE Model Coaching transforms lives
“I am the first of my long line ancestors afforded the freedom to be able to choose, to create my life in whichever way it is meaningful for me in each unfolding moment. What a gift I have given mySelf — one I am eternally grateful for and intend to honour, as if my life depends on it, because it does.”
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Dear Declan: A love letter to my son
“I am choosing to write these letters and post them publicly because I know I am not alone in what I see unfolding “out there”. I know I am not the only mother who is deeply concerned. And… I know that I choose not to hide in the closet, pretending, because there is no power there.”
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Transcending A Life of Mediocrity
“What else is possible when you embrace the fundamental lie that plagues our global cultural beliefs? Everything is peachy out there and if you feel anything but numb to all the (utterly indisputable) bullshit, then there’s something wrong with you.”
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How this process changes lives
“Today, I know well that the past does not serve me. It helped shape me, it has provided me with an opportunity to learn more about myself, and it does not define me. I know, with every single breath, I can choose choices that serve me, as I am, in this moment.”