Waiting Is Costing You.

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Jun 18

Women have been taught, intergenerationally, to settle for small bites. To play it safe before they dive in. To take what they’re given and deprive themselves of what’s meaningful to them.

Women are taught to settle, then stew.

And underneath all that? There’s an unexplainable and insatiable hunger. Hunger for Life! Hunger for depth. Hunger for depth. Desire. Pleasure. Joy. A hunger for more… the kind of more that would compel them to finally feel free. Not because they obeyed, but because they dared.

They dared to step out of the conventional narratives of “good girls should”.

They dared to wake up!

They dared to stop giving their power away to some “other”.

They dared to reclaim their power for themselves.

They dared to be radically honest with themselves, and others.

They dared to stand out.

They dared to bring voice to what which Signal whispered.

They dared to manifest that which matters to them.

They dared to notice that waiting cost them dearly.

You see, what I have come to discover about women is that we are insatiable. We have a massive appetite for life, lived! We want more and we want it NOW!

But.

We wait.

Until someone gives us permission. Until someone approves. Until someone we perceive as more powerful says so.

Someone, or something. It could be your mother, sister or husband, but it could also be money, time and other things we hold as scarce — valuable for others, but not for ourselves.

So we wait… some wait a lifetime waiting for “it” to be over. They hold their breath, resentful that no one is noticing. No one cares enough to give us permission. No one loves us enough to even notice.

Then we play the blame game and we blame them for the quality of our life. Yikes!

The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off. A lot.

Bottom line? To have the life you want YOU have to create it.

What you and I are as human beings is far more magical than anyone has ever taught us, or has ever known. We are a living expression of that which is eternal and infinite. We are The All manifesting uniquely. We are godForces, in tissue. We are the infinite manifesting in the finite.

But the point is — we are infinite!

That which is infinite knows no scarcity. It knows the illusion of the finite is just that — an illusion. It responds to life in such a way that compels life to evolve into more, not less. It engages from the unknown, trusting it will create that which is meaningful to create, not protect more-of-the-same-status-quo-living-that’s-killing-us (that’s cultural conditioning).

If I am a living godForce, which I viscerally know mySelf to be (and until it’s visceral it’s only theoretical and untouchable), I can create whatever reality I want! I could manifest riches, or I could manifest connection. I could manifest joy, or I could manifest power. It really doesn’t matter — as long as I align myself to that which is meaningful for me, I will create it.

This does not mean my path is filled with roses. On the contrary — my path will be filled with exactly the “challenge” I need in that moment to keep engaging meaningfully. What’s the alternative? Abandon mySelf? No, thanks.

But the pressures to abandon ourselves are unfathomable … until they’re not. Until you discover your power, the never-ending story of the cultural conditioning will keep playing in your mind, over and over, loud and invasive as propaganda on a megaphone.

The good news? You can escape that reality simply by getting curious about what you don’t know what you don’t know about yourself, that when discovered, will free you. Layer by layer. Truth by truth. Integration by integration.

An infinite process for an infinite Being.

This process isn’t to be claimed by everyone — the cultural noise is far too loud and invasive for that.

But for those who are willing? There is a way.

And it’s for you:

If you’re willing to live in the truth of your experience…

If you’re willing to hear that which is deeply unsettling and uncomfortable yet it’s true…

If you’re willing to differentiate the truth from the noise …

If you’re willing to be in the tough conversations with yourself …

If you’re willing to take action on your own behalf …

If you’re willing to notice: you are majestic.

Are you willing to claim it?

If so, the rest of your life will be nothing short of magic, lived.

Comment below — what’s the one thing this post stirred in you?

PS - this blog was written with zero AI.

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I’m Stela Murrizi, and I work with women who feel too much, think too deeply, and carry a silent ache that something’s missing.

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